If your Asperger's child is anything like mine, then you will not see them much while you are entertaining or visiting with your friends and family. My son is a blur when we are around people outside the immediate family. He moves from one room to another with some sort of stealth technology. By the time we notice he is gone, he is already settled in to his room.
It can be difficult trying to get an Asperger's child to 'mingle' or socialize in any way even with people he sees more than once a year. They may have a sensitivity that you haven't pinpointed yet, although it is clear they are uncomfortable. Be aware of your child's surroundings and see where and what makes them uncomfortable. Then maybe you can prepare for your next outing or visit.
In my case, I let me child bring a handheld game with him when we visit because it distracts him from the noise and he is still able to talk with people who approach him one at a time. Some feel I encourage an anti-social behavior, but I felt it was more important to make him feel comfortable and he does converse when others approach him. In time, he will learn and embrace approaching others.
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